Her very being exudes an obsession with excellence; you might say she is a modern-day Mrs. Keep. On the day we meet, she’s wearing tan wool trousers, leopard-print pumps, a string of black pearls, and a black cape with a fur collar. Though she won’t comment on the allegations in the suit, she makes her views on coddling perfectly clear. She believes, essentially, we’ve become a nation of politically correct softies, afraid of distinguishing anyone from anyone else lest anyone’s feelings get hurt.

The Code of Miss Porter’s School | vanityfair.com

enough with the feelings already.  you can’t pussy-foot through life and actually GET anywhere.